Higher Performance Insights | YOUR PROBLEM HAS BODYGUARDS
Every problem can be solved.
"That won't work here."
Every leadership team I've ever sat with has said it. District offices, presidents' suites, my own conference room. Yup, I said it plenty in my years as a principal and superintendent, usually around 4:45 on a Thursday.
It sounds like experience. Listen closer, and it's a bodyguard. Big, calm, arms folded, standing in front of a problem somebody quietly decided to keep.
So here's my claim, and I want you to argue with me in the comments. Every problem your leadership team faces right now can be solved. Every one.
Some of you nodded. Some of you started typing. Good. Hold that thought until the end, because you're going to pick a side.
FIRST, SORT THE PILE
Situations stay no matter what you do. The birth rate behind your 2031 kindergarten class is already set. So is the funding formula your legislature won't touch this session. You accept a situation, plan around it, and stop spending Tuesday mornings angry at it.
Problems have solutions. Expensive ones, unpopular ones, ones you'd rather not choose. They exist.
Stuck teams mix the piles. They fight situations as if they were problems and wear themselves out. Then they treat problems as if they were situations and call it being realistic.
The second mistake is the expensive one. Nobody puts it in the minutes.
MEET THE BODYGUARDS
You know them by name.
• "Our board would never."
• "Our faculty won't."
• "That's a big-district idea."
• "Our students are different."
• "We tried that in 2019."
• "Not in a referendum year."
Each one shows up on time, never takes a vacation, and has never once been asked for ID.
Some of them are telling the truth. Plenty are guarding a fear nobody has said out loud, and it's usually one of two.
The first fear: we try it, it fails, and people say we overreached.
The second fear is the one nobody talks about. We try it, it works, and now we've made a promise we're not sure we can keep. More scrutiny. Higher expectations. Our name on it.
Neither ending feels safe. So the bodyguard keeps its job, and the same item comes back to the agenda every month.
"That won't work here" is sometimes a fact. More often it's a fear wearing a fact's clothes.
FIVE MOVES TO GET PAST THE BODYGUARD
Any leadership team can run these in one meeting.
1. Sort it. Ask the room, "Is this a problem or a situation?" If it's a situation, stop solving and start designing around it. You'll get back every hour you were spending on a fight you can't win.
2. Name the two wants. A protected problem usually hides two wants that can't both be true. Put the sentence on the whiteboard: "We want ___, and we want ___." We want to sunset the program, and we want the faculty senate to feel fine about it. We want a team that tells us the truth, and we want every meeting to feel comfortable. Once both wants are on the board, the real conversation starts: which one will you give up?
3. Ask the bodyguard for ID. When someone says it won't work here, most of us pile on evidence. More data, another district that pulled it off. I've done this a hundred times, and it almost never moves anyone. Hand the question back instead: "Has anyone done this somewhere like us? Show me the model. Then tell me which part of it scares you."
4. Find out who hired it. Every bodyguard works for a human need: status, belonging, or safety from blame. Say you won't launch a new learning model until it carries a state recognition. One layer down, the worry is often that launching without it would make you look like a fraud. No award fixes that. Say the need out loud, then point it at something worth building, like a program your community would miss if it disappeared.
5. Ask the failure question. "If we knew for certain this would fail, would it still be worth doing?" If the answer is yes, you're free. Your reputation is off the table, and the decision can stand on its merits.
WHY SMART TEAMS GET STUCK
We measure team intelligence as TQ = IQ × EQ × PQ.
IQ can write a brilliant analysis of why you're stuck. It takes EQ for someone to say, "I'm afraid this might work." It takes PQ, the team's awareness of itself, to tell which bodyguards are fact and which are fear.
The three multiply. Let one drift toward zero and all that IQ produces a very well-reasoned standstill.
MONDAY MORNING: THE BODYGUARD ROLL CALL
Thirty-five minutes. (If you're mid-crisis, bookmark this and do it Tuesday.)
Step 1 (10 minutes, before the meeting). Pull your last three agendas. Mark each recurring item P for problem or S for situation. Circle every P that has been there three months or more.
Step 2 (15 minutes, at the meeting). Pick the circled item that has lasted longest. Ask the team for its bodyguard, the exact sentence you hear whenever it comes up. Then fill in "We want ___, and we want ___." If people fill it in differently, good. You just learned you were guarding different things.
Step 3 (10 minutes). Same item, out loud: "If we knew this would fail, would it still be worth doing?" Go around the table. No one passes.
You'll hear two pushbacks.
"We don't have time." You already spend the time, every month the item comes back unchanged. Thirty-five minutes once costs less than another semester of circling.
"My team will get defensive." Some will. Go first. Say your own bodyguard and your own fear. Teams take risks at the level the leader models.
SCREENSHOT THIS
Three questions for the whiteboard. Tape them inside the agenda folder. The bodyguard does not care for it there.
• Is this a problem or a situation?
• "We want ___, and we want ___." Which one will we give up?
• If we knew this would fail, would it still be worth doing?
PICK A SIDE
A: Every problem in education can be solved. The ones we call unsolvable are being protected.
B: Some problems in our work can't be solved, and telling leaders otherwise burns good people out.
Comment A or B. Then give me one bodyguard you've heard this year, word for word. Bonus points if you said it yourself. I read every one.
FROM DR. JOE
When someone on your leadership team says "that won't work here," who in the room is allowed to ask why?
In a lot of the teams I work with, the honest answer is nobody. Everyone is smart. Everyone means well. Your best people spend their best energy explaining why the problem can't move, and the leader at the top carries it home alone. That's how good leaders burn out.
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If this named something your team has been circling, repost it with your A or B, or send it to the one colleague who needs it before their next meeting.
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