2. You Have No Hobbies…or a Life

A second sign you’re struggling with toxic productivity is that you have no hobbies, or life for that matter.

Sorry. Taking a break from work to watch Sports Center, Netflix, or YouTube is not a hobby.

By definition, a hobby costs you both time and money. It should also take your full focus, whether your hobby is mountain biking, glass blowing, beer brewing, cross fit, cross stitch, touch rugby, photography, scuba diving, or learning a new language.

You probably don't have one if you can’t answer the question “what’s your hobby” in 3 seconds or less.

Many leaders I serve have no hobbies or life outside of work. And that’s a price not worth paying.

3. You Work Because You Want To. And You Always Want To

To make matters worse for productivity over-achievers, work now follows us everywhere via your phones and laptops.

You used to have to go to the office to do work. Now the office goes to you and with you everywhere you go.

And because you can work, you do.

4. You Know Productivity Shame

For many driven leaders, it’s hard to sit still. But productivity shame goes deeper than that. 

What is productivity shame exactly?

According to Rescue Time, productivity shame involves the feeling that you aren’t allowed to do things that are “unproductive.”

You feel guilty when you spend time on hobbies (see above), watch a movie, or simply sit back and relax.

In other words, you're not satisfied if you’re not working. 

5. Your Oasis is Always Three Months Away 

Blank space in your calendar is a trap. It looks like freedom, but its captivity disguised as liberty.

One reason toxic productivity is so deadly is that you can trick yourself into believing it will get better soon. And by soon, you mean three months from now.

For example, you might say to yourself, “March is madness, but after commencement in May, it is going to be awesome!”

The reason it’s easy to fall for is because when you look three months ahead in your calendar, it seems pretty blank.

The problem is that’s precisely what May looked like back in February and what October looks like in July.

And so, we fool ourselves into thinking that relief is three months away. Except it never is.

If you want to access a better way to plan for the future, here are several resources to help. 

6. Your Closest Relationships Are Suffering

Eventually, you’ll quit or retire from your job. You never retire from being a parent, a spouse, or a good friend.

The people who pay the greatest price for toxic productivity are not your co-workers—they’re the people closest to you: Your spouse, kids, and friends.

You blow them off, tell them to wait, explain that you’re too busy, and bury your head in your laptop.

The people closest to you should have the best access to you. But toxic productivity creates the opposite impact: The people closest to you get the leftovers of you.

7. You’re Always Trying to BEST Yourself

For top performers, work can become a little like how Google Maps has become to many of us: you’re always trying to beat the ETA by just a few minutes.

And once you shave a minute off your arrival time, the gauntlet is set to shave another minute (or two) off to see if you can arrive even faster (I’m speaking hypothetically here).

Productivity turns toxic when you’re unsatisfied with your progress or results.

It always has to be a little faster, better, and always up and to the right.

What’s worse, this kind of behavior gets rewarded.

Workaholism is the most rewarded addiction in America. If you drink too much, you get fired. If you work too much, you get a raise and promotion.

8. There’s No Finish Line

If you don’t declare a finish line to your work, eventually, your body will. It’s called burnout.

As noted, the challenge with productivity is that you can always get better.

You can always become a little more efficient, a little more effective, download a new app, or master a new skill that helps you get a little more done in less time, which creates more time for more work.

Which means there’s no finish line. Ever.

Every piece you wrote could be a little better. Every day you spend could have been a little more ideal.

As leaders who have burned out know, though, if you don’t declare a finish line to your work. Eventually, you will burn out.

9. You’re Overwhelmed, But That’s Normal

Healthy productivity has a finish line and leads to a life of peace, not just a full work schedule.

It allows you to sleep at night, take a real vacation, work out, make time for hobbies, friends, and family, and still get much more done at work.

Toxic productivity never leaves you feeling satisfied. It leaves you feeling overwhelmed.

Semester II is when you start planning for Semester I

This is one of the best opportunities to begin planning to accelerate your team’s performance.

I have had the pleasure of serving school district, and college campus Lead Teams for the past decade and know your system's performance is directly connected to this team's health (and smarts).

❓How’s your team’s communication and connection?
❓How’s the quality of your system’s alignment and execution?
❓What’s your plan for optimizing your Lead Team’s capacity?

As THE people leader for your system, I invite you and your leadership team to consider enrolling in the Lead Team Institute {LTI} for the 2023-2024 academic year.

Here is a quick link for more info.

This national initiative is designed to Optimize Higher Team Performance:

✅ Team Communication
✅ Team Connection
✅ Team Alignment
✅ Team Execution
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Dr. Joe Hill - Founder, Higher Performance Group

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