5 Tiny Habits That Produce Gigantic Results

October 18, 2022

Leading systems and people can seem so overwhelming.


However, leadership is typically more straightforward than it appears.


In many ways, Higher Performance leaders master some fundamental habits that other people miss. The advice in this post is so simple that you might think, “this is so basic, Joe.”


Maybe that’s the point.


I know dozens of leaders with advanced degrees in leadership who read everything on the topic and are still relatively ineffective. 


I know just as many leaders with little formal education but lead powerfully and effectively day in and day out.


Often, these leaders gain influence because they’ve mastered a few basic skills others miss.


Here are 5 of my absolute favorite basic leadership skills that are far too easy to overlook.

Make them habits, and you’ll become an irresistible leader everyone will want to follow. 


1. Make Heroes


How healthy is your relationship with yourself?  


Who comes to mind when I say the word, narcissist?


Insecure people focus on themselves because they can’t bear to give anyone else the spotlight.


Leaders who lack confidence can end up being selfish. Their lack of self-esteem means no one else gets attention.


How do you escape the trap of narcissism, insecurity, or low self-confidence?


Make someone else the hero.


If you’re a campus or district leader, make sure you point to your mission, not to yourself, when you speak. Worry more about whether people connect with your purpose than whether they connect with you.


What else does this principle look like?


If you’re a writer, make your reader the hero. The filter through which I try to run every post I write is what I call a “useful” filter. I want the post to help you as a reader. I want you to win.


Think about it. You and I love leaders who point beyond themselves to someone else. Why not be that leader?


So, when you struggle with that inner pull toward narcissism, insecurity, or low self-confidence, step aside and make someone else the hero.


It works and elevates your cachet with others… who might eventually see YOU as their hero. 


2. Promise your Promises


If there’s one piece of advice I want my adult children to remember (other than MAKE MORE HUMANS), it’s this: Do what you say you’re going to do when you say you’re going to do it.


It puts you ahead of about 99% of others on the planet.


Think back on your last week. Who frustrated you most? 


Probably the people who didn’t do what they said they would do when they said they would do it, right?

Now envision the people you are most likely to promote, reward, or even want to hang out with.


It’s obvious. The people who do what they say they’re going to do when they say they’re going to do it.


Doing what you said you would do when you said you would do it is the basis of trust. It’s also the basis for building stronger influence with your people.


What do you do if you struggle in this area? 


Easy. Just stop promising and start delivering, then reintroduce your talk when your walk catches up to what you want to promise others.



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3. Use Results-Based Leadership


I’m sick, and you are dog-tired watching team meeting - after meeting (keep going) focused on process, not outcomes. 


The “how” of methods seems to be why your work calendar is populated by back-to-back-to-back meetings that swirl in activity but absent productivity. 


I realize it’s cliché’ these days to say the journey is more important than the destination. But not always. 


Let’s get serious. What fun is the journey if you end up with more “to dos” than “to done?” 


It’s furiously frustrating when your weekly check-in with your leaders on the tasks for the week produces the same old song and wiggle:

  • Well, I emailed him.
  • She never got back to me.
  • I’ve called five times.
  • I think they must be on vacation or something.


And you try to understand that they FEEL like the project is complete because they tried.


Nope: Trying isn’t the same as doing.


Don’t you want to say, “STOP!” I’m asking you if it is done?“


A year ago, the HPG team was starting to drift in this common (average) direction, and we made an intentional pivot to stop focusing on the process and start focusing on outcomes.


When you focus on outcomes, you set yourself (and your team) up for success. Instead of running endlessly to track where people are at in the process of initiatives, you learn the two-step dance. 


  • Step #1 – Set the outcome and the timeline
  • Step #2 – Expect and account for the on-time and quality delivery of that outcome


If you focus on outcomes, you’ll also have a shot at mastering point #2 above. 


Promising your promises and GSD (getting s#$% done) makes the journey much more enjoyable for your high-capacity, A-Team players. 


A non-results culture is the perfect habitat for average leaders and teams to reproduce like rabbits. 


4. Look In, Not Just At


Have you noticed how hard it is to look someone in the eye—to make them the sole focus of your attention?


I’m pretty sure I have undiagnosed attention issues, and it’s tough to stay focused on people and ignore the adjacent noise or anything else in the room (or my phone at the moment).


It’s common, and it leads to average performance. 


Higher Performance leaders manage against these common tendencies and always look the other in the eye.


One of the anchoring behaviors I am working to make a habit is this. When I’m in a conversation with someone, I’ll create a voice in my head that keeps repeating, “Look them in the eye…look them in the eye.” 


It sounds so elementary, but it helps.


I’ll even position myself in a remote Zoom meeting to face a blank wall. Otherwise, I instinctively glance at whatever is moving about me.


Watch for it…the very best leaders look you in the eye and make you the sole focus of their attention.


Practice that this week.


5. Smile


Everyone has a default expression. It’s hard to know what yours is because you never see yourself as others see you.


I learned years ago that my default facial expression is…intensity. I apparently forgot to tell my face if I'm having a good time. 


I’m also a fast walker and appear to be bucking a fierce wind in my face on my way to any meeting. 


People (who love me) have given me constructive advice, such as “try strolling across the room and pretending you are talking with a small child. 


I know that’s so basic, but remember, you’re programming against your default here, so it’s not easy.


I must remind myself to smile when I teach, to smile when I greet people, and to smile in conversations.


It makes a huge difference.


Michael Hyatt has a similar issue and, in this post, outlined five positive impacts of smiling more as a leader.


Smile!


You deserve to stop scurrying in confusion and busyness.


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You believe in your people. Your org chart doesn't. ο»Ώ That's not a leadership philosophy problem. It's an architecture problem. And it's sitting in five questions. The gap between what your cabinet produces and what it's actually capable of isn't a hiring problem. It isn't a training problem. It isn't even a culture problem — though it wears culture's name in most post-mortem conversations. It's a deployment problem. And it has a name: The Deployment Gap — the distance between what your people are actually built to do and what your cabinet architecture is currently asking them to do. You don't have a talent problem. You have a deployment architecture problem. And unlike talent, architecture is completely within your control. The test below takes eight minutes. It will either confirm what you already sense — or surface a gap you've been too busy to name. Either way, you'll know something true by the end of it. 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Question 3 When did you last move someone in your cabinet — not out, sideways — because you discovered they'd be more valuable somewhere else? If the answer is "never" or "not recently," you're running a static architecture in a dynamic institution. The principle of comparative advantage — deploying people based on what makes the whole team better, not just what fills the org chart — requires ongoing recalibration. High-TQ cabinets aren't built once. They're continuously tuned. If your cabinet looks structurally identical to the one you inherited or designed three years ago, it's almost certainly operating below its ceiling — because the people in it have grown, and the structure hasn't followed. Question 4 If you removed yourself from the room, would the quality of your cabinet's thinking go up, go down, or stay the same? This one stops people cold. And it should. The honest answer for most leaders is: it would go down. Not because their cabinet is incapable — but because the cabinet has been architected around the leader's presence rather than the team's collective intelligence. When the leader is the room's primary thinker, the cabinet functions as a reporting structure rather than a thinking unit. High-TQ cabinets are built to think better when the leader steps back, not worse. If your absence creates a gap rather than an activation, the architecture needs attention. → Save this before you keep reading. Question 4 is the one you'll want to bring to your cabinet. Question 5 What is one thing someone on your cabinet is genuinely better at than you — and are you currently deploying that superiority or quietly managing it? This is the question that separates leaders who believe in their people from leaders who manage their people. Believing in people is not a sentiment. It's a structural act. It means building an architecture where someone else's excellence isn't a threat to your authority — it's the mechanism by which your institution actually moves. If the honest answer is that you're managing their superiority rather than deploying it, you're paying the full cost of their talent while capturing only a fraction of its value. The org chart proves it — or it doesn't. THE FRAMEWORK What High-TQ Cabinets Do Differently The leaders in our research who moved their cabinets from functioning to performing didn't do it through better hiring. They did it through better seeing. They stopped asking "Is this person good at their job?" and started asking "Is this person in the job they're actually built for — and is the team architecture drawing out what makes them irreplaceable?" Three specific moves separated them from the rest. Move 1: The Contribution Conversation 30 minutes. This week. Schedule a one-on-one with each cabinet member — not a performance check-in. A contribution conversation. One question: "If you could redesign your role to maximize what you do better than almost anyone, what would change?" Then listen without defending the org chart. You're not committing to restructuring. You're generating intelligence. What you learn in those conversations will tell you more about your cabinet's deployment gap than any assessment you've ever administered. (If you're thinking "I don't have time for five thirty-minute conversations" — you're currently spending far more than that managing the downstream effects of misalignment. The math is not close.) Move 2: The Silence Audit Your next cabinet meeting. At your next cabinet meeting, track — on paper, not mentally — who speaks, on what topics, and for how long. Don't change the meeting. Just observe it. What you'll find almost always surprises leaders: the pattern of voice has almost nothing to do with who has the most relevant expertise on a given topic. It has everything to do with who has learned that speaking in this room is safe. The silence audit isn't about demanding more participation. It's about diagnosing which voices your current architecture has quietly trained out of the room — and what those voices would be worth if the architecture changed. Move 3: The Comparative Advantage Question Standing agenda item. Add one question to your monthly cabinet agenda: "Given what each of us is genuinely best at — are we deployed against our comparative advantages right now, or against our job descriptions?" High-TQ cabinets ask this question continuously. They treat deployment as a living variable, not a fixed structure. The result isn't chaos — it's the opposite. When people operate inside their zone of genuine contribution, the collective architecture stabilizes because everyone is giving what they actually have rather than performing what was expected. THE MATURITY SHIFT IMMATURE LEADER THINKS: "I need to develop my people." MATURE LEADER THINKS: "I need to deploy my people — against what they're actually built for, not what the org chart assumed they'd be." IMMATURE LEADER THINKS: Fills roles with people. Hires for the job description. Evaluates against it. Develops people within it. MATURE LEADER THINKS: Builds architecture around people. Discovers what each person does better than almost anyone. Builds the structure that deploys it. IMMATURE LEADER THINKS: Believes in their people as a value statement. MATURE LEADER THINKS: Believes in their people as a structural act. The org chart proves it — or it doesn't. The gap between believing in your people and building for them is the most expensive gap in educational leadership. It doesn't show up on your balance sheet. It shows up in every cabinet meeting where the room produces less than the sum of the people in it. Your turn: Run Question 1 right now. Name one person on your cabinet whose greatest professional strength is not what you're currently asking them to do most. First name only. One sentence. What would change in your institution if you fixed that one misalignment? Drop it in the comments. The pattern in those answers will tell you something important about how many leaders are sitting on untapped architecture. THE TEAM INSTITUTE Most leadership development programs operate on a theory that is structurally backwards: develop people individually, and cabinet performance will follow. It won't. Not at the level you need. Not consistently. Not without the collective architecture that ensures individual development actually lands somewhere. Here's what the research across 987 leadership teams shows: the cabinets that moved from 60% to 90% capacity didn't get there by becoming individually sharper. They got there by building the collective conditions where each person's genuine contribution could actually be deployed — and protected. That's what THE TEAM INSTITUTE builds. Not better individual leaders. Better collective architecture — the shared language, structural clarity, and trust infrastructure that turns eight individually capable people into a cabinet that genuinely multiplies. 8 months. Full cabinet. Sequential development that builds from the foundations on which everything else depends. From our research: 3x performance improvement. 29% higher engagement. 27% better organizational outcomes. Zero burnout increase. One requirement: full cabinet participation. Partial collective architecture is not architecture. It's a majority position wearing the name of the whole. If you recognized your cabinet somewhere in those five questions, that recognition is data. Not a feeling. Data. The Team Intelligence Assessment is not a self-assessment. It's a whole-cabinet diagnostic — your full leadership team completes it together, and the output shows exactly where your cabinet lands on the spectrum from functioning to multiplying. Calibrated against 987 leadership teams across 43 states. The output pinpoints specifically whether the gap in your cabinet lives in IQ, EQ, or PQ. Most cabinets find the gap isn't where they assumed it was. That surprise is where the real work begins. If there were a way to build the collective architecture your cabinet is missing — without another retreat that returns seven brilliant individuals to the same broken system — would that be worth exploring? → Learn more and reserve your team's assessment window: higherperformancegroup.com/team-intelligence-assessment This is a conversation between people who are done accepting cabinets that function when they could be multiplying. FOUND VALUE IN THIS? Help other educational leaders find it: → Repost this with your answer to Question 4. "If I stepped out, my cabinet's thinking would _____." One word. The leaders who need to read this are in your network right now — and that one word will make them stop scrolling. → Tag a cabinet member who brings something genuinely irreplaceable to your team — and tell them you see it. Seven words. Highest-ROI leadership act you'll do this week. → Comment with your honest answer to Question 1. One name, one sentence. The pattern in those comments will tell you something important about how many leaders are sitting on untapped architecture. The more leaders who move from developing their people to deploying them, the better our institutions become. Follow DR. JOE HILL for the framework. Follow Higher Performance Group for the research behind it. Every week.
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